Dating A Guy With No Drive Or Ambition

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A student loan is a far better investment. And I can’t believe that needs to be spelled out. You can use the site’s detailed search criteria and filters to narrow down the list of suggestions offered to you, based on your preferences and core values. Eharmony offers, among others, a ‘geography’ filter so you can choose where the people you’d like to date are from, as well as a ‘distance’ in case you’re not keen on dating someone who lives far away.

He avoids making plans.

Unfortunately, this doesn’t help smoothen the arguments. You begin to take more and more time for yourself and friends, and less and less time with the person you’re seeing. You only want to see this person when you want him or her.

Every man and woman is relationship or marriage material no matter what their life station is, and has nothing whatsoever to do with money and earning power. If you think otherwise, I hope you get what you deserve, to die alone, unloved, and totally forgotten. I have my own house living and supporting my two boys and 3 animals that I love very much. My both sons have jobs, one has a full-time job working 15 hr. days and the other part-time because he’s still in school. I teach them about budgeting and one is great at saving, the other not so good but still make him pay me something every month.

But he always has a reason so when I simply look at his actions as opposed to his words, the truth blares out very loudly…he just want mom to take care of him. And I am tired of being Mom to this man. Also, a good source of support has been a book I recently read by David Deida called The Way Of The Superior Man. The author tell what happens to a man who will not grow up and own his manhold. This type of man is basically stuck wanting Mom to take care of him and really this type of relationship never will give a grown woman what she wants. It is a dead end, get out as soon as possible and don’t look back.

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But I am considered “very low income” in So Cal, where I live. Right now, I can’t afford to pick up more than half the tab…as I can barely foot all of it just for myself. My other option on the rent issue, is to move in and room with a perfect stranger. As a person who’s been forced out of an apartment more than once because of a stalker…the prospect of trusting someone I don’t know, to LIVE with, is literally terrifying. You sound like a lovely person if you care for the elderly.

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He currently does not have a job or claims to be in between jobs.

So I really could not have a job as I would be missing to many days traveling with my wife. She makes a lot of money and there really is no reason for me to work. I don’t spend money on anything really as all I do is stay home and workout in my garage. It’s fine that you are giving him a chance, but you are in way too deep.

What i mean is relationships shouldn’t be solely based on the amount of money you make. If you are really in love live within the household income. A man should either work or be looking for work period. If you are unemployed your job is to find a job, that’s what a real man does. Men let’s be men and take care of our women, and women fight for your man it will make him fight for what you want.

Sorry, but none of this is worth 5 minutes of good dick!!! He still wanted to see me after the things that I told him. But if I were to pursue this any further I know that it will be a constant guilt trip to make me provide for him.

Those men finally realised that money doesn’t impress me, and are now left to look for a woman who loves money. Women really dig me, but I have low self-esteem and don’t feel comfortable dating. I occasionally travel and visit family, and while there I help with cooking, trash, change diapers, get dishes done, take the kids to school, park, library, and activities.

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